icemakemage asked: I agree. While I -do- think a relationship can work on personality alone, I think it's ridiculous how so many people get bitched at for having a type/ considering appearances to have importance.

If you’re truly not attracted to someone, how do you expect to work on personality alone? Where’s the physical connection? Would you really want to kiss someone you though was ugly, even though they’re a nice person?
But I do agree with your latter point, everyone has preferences. If they say they don’t they’re most often times lying.